Children
Cannot
Make Sexual Choices
Blondie L. Clayton
Children are
vulnerable to sexual predators because they lack the maturity to make
decisions
that are good for them. If they could do that, there would be no need
for
parents to guide them. Sex should take place between two consenting
adults and
not children.
He’s
24, 40, or
17, and she’s 5. A sexually abused 5 year old is still in the
formative stage
of life. The older person who commits the act has the knowledge and
experience.
The 5 year old does not even know the proper name for her/his body
parts, not
to mention what they are used for. It is an innocent betrayal leading
the “cubs
to slaughter.”
Record the
conversations of those who have sexually abused a child and you will
hear
repeatedly, that in some way the abuser felt the child was flirting
with them,
that the child wanted them. Children are the target because they trust,
can be
easily threatened, intimidated and manipulated into performance and
silence.
Abusers may
not
think they are dysfunctional, but how else would they justify
committing such
an act without remorse, and feel it is their right to pursue such an
act based
on their sexual dysfunction.
It doesn’t matter
whether the abuser is caught, to them it’s worth the risk. The
thoughts are
illogical to a logical, moral mind but not to one walking through life
as an
abuser. If you were the abused, stop the anger, hatred and bitterness,
release
it now! Stop trying to understand the abuser. The truth of the matter,
their
sin has consumed them, stolen their soul. Life goes on for the abuser
whether
you like it or not, but you can escape your prison. Tell it to someone,
or
write it and destroy it so no one else sees it.
Read how I wrote
my way to sexual abuse healing and freedom with the help of a friend (click here).
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